While leaving the gym, I ran into an old friend from high school who I knew enjoy strap-on sex.  Though I hate running into people I haven’t seen in ages, this time small talk was unavoidable.

We asked each other the basic questions of life.  But I have to admit I already Facebook crept her a couple of months ago. She’s one of those people that make you check-in with them, you know, see where they are in life. I knew she was a lesbian.  Dating this woman who enjoys riding horses and making campfires. I already knew everything there was to know, expect the details.

After a couple of minutes, she offered to grab a coffee, and I said yes. I knew this was my chance to clear up some of the myths that were floating around in my head about strapon play.  Maybe she had the answers.

Enjoy Strap-on Sex

Details were what I was curious about. I wasn’t a lesbian, and though I understood and respected the basics of it, I wanted to know more.

We sat down, I ordered a cold coffee.  She had a latte. We talked about life, and I brought up her relationship. “Listen,” I said, “I want to ask you a question that’s really been on my mind.”

She smiled openly and nodded, “sure, what is it?” I looked at her for a moment with hesitation, can I ask her this? Can you ask people you haven’t seen in ten years a question like this?

“I want to know more about strap-on sex,” I replied.

“That is if you know anything about it. I have a lot of questions about it, and people ask me about it like I’m some wise wizard. But, I haven’t tried it before, so I don’t really know.”

She leaned back and laughed, “is this why you agreed to go to coffee with me?” I laughed, “well, partially yes. But I’m also curious about your opinion on these things.” She leaned forward, “well, I do have strap-on sex with my partner if that’s what you’re asking.” I nodded, “but why?”

Her eyebrows furrowed, “what do you mean why?” I paused for a moment, rephrasing my thoughts, “I guess my question is why have strap-on sex?” Over the next thirty minutes, I was given all the reasons why.

A dildo isn’t a Penis

Here’s what we get wrong with lesbian strap-on sex.  Most of us assume that lesbians opt for strap-on sex because they miss having sex with men. But that’s wrong.

Just because a woman enjoys using dildos doesn’t mean she wants to have sex with men. A dildo is a phallic object that both men and women use for pleasure. It’s not a penis.

Strap-on sex spices things up

Like everything in life, a routine can become boring. Whether it’s lesbian, gay, or straight sex, doing the same sex positions can become dull.

Sex toys are fun and strap-on sex spices things up and allows lesbian couples to try new positions, broadening their sexual repertoire. Strap-on sex isn’t necessarily used every time a couple has sex.

Instead, it can be used to switch up the routine and put a little va-va-voom back in the bedroom.

It changes power dynamics

Most people assume that in lesbian relationships, there is a butch/femme dynamic where the masculine individual is the top and the feminine individual is the bottom.

That’s not the case. Firstly, women, regardless of their features, can like a variety of other types of women. A butch can date someone femme, androgynous or tomboy and vice versa.  During sex, role reversal happens often and allows both women to try out different power dynamics.

Women can experience both the desire to penetrate and be penetrated; they’re more fluid when it comes to power dynamics.

Because there’s more to sex than scissoring

Porn industry didn’t interpret lesbian sex very well. If you look up lesbian porn, most of them scissor. Though scissoring is an actual lesbian sex position, it’s not the only one they engage in.

Lesbian sex involves a variety of positions and requires a decent level of flexibility. But, again, it’s not the only position. Oral sex, fingering, and strap-on sex is some examples of sexual acts included in lesbian sex.

Strap-on sex is penetrative sex

Sex between women via strap-on isn’t the same as a woman having sex with a man. Major difference is because one of them involves a man whereas the other involves a dildo.

Strap-on sex is penetrative sex which has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Women, regardless of their sexuality, can enjoy penetrative sex and desire it with their female partner. This is where the strap-on plays an important role.

It provides a lesbian couple the ability to have penetrative sex without involving a man. In other words, sometimes you just want to be penetrated.

So if you were wondering why some lesbians enjoy strap-on sex, these are some of the reasons why. Beauty of sex is everyone can enjoy different acts for reasons other than their sexuality, and strap-ons are simply a tool for exploration.

It’s A Pulsator NOT a Vibrator

The Stronic Zwei sex toy is manufactured by the iconic Fun Factory brand that is located in Germany and is a Pulsator NOT A Vibrator.

All their toys are manufactured and designed there so the quality is unsurpassed.  Fun Factory’s Stronic Zwei is not your everyday vibrator.  In fact it is not a vibrator at all.  It is a pulsator which means rather than vibrate the sex toy pulsates up and down.  Not quite a thruster but emulates the exact action of intercourse.

It is one of the favorite bestselling toy for gay partners. Partner play will never have had as much fun as when you do with this toy.

Fun Factory’s Stronic Zwei has the following functionality

• PULSATOR new, ‘naturalistic, rhythmic thrusts really intense stimulation from pulsating thrusts in the strong, low frequency level.
• PRESS FUN TO PLAY: easiest to use ten stimulation rhythms.
• ‘Emergency off fast switch off with the FUN button.
• key lock for quiet transport.
• 100 % medical grade silicone.
• waterproof | easy to clean.

Bright and Vibrant 

All Fun Factory toys are renowned for being bright and vibrant and the Zwei is no exception.  Design is roughly phallic and designed with the aim of enhancing or improving the users sex life.

One of the ways that it will improve the sex life of its users is by assisting them to reach orgasm faster and often with less effort.  In most cases, men reach orgasm faster than their female sexual partners.

During ordinary sexual activity; that is activity that does not rely on sex toys online, female partners are often left to their own devices without reaching orgasm.  Because once some men reach orgasm their less erectile penis fails to do its duty properly.

This can be rather frustrating for a lady

Not to be able to reach her sexual climax and lead to frustration and anger. If used during foreplay the Zwei will cause the woman to be more aroused early enough. Making it possible for her to climax at the same time with her partner.

It also has the ability of helping women who fail to orgasm during ordinary sex to experience one or even multiple orgasms. Though women may know it not, orgasm helps in releasing tension.  Women who reach their orgasm levels at least two times a week enjoy better nights sleep.

USING SEX TOYS

Partners who use sex toys often may have realized that the devices may help them sustain sexual activities that take a prolonged period of time.

Ordinarily, when a male partner ejaculates, sexual activity may fail to go on with the same vigor it started with. Luckily, female vibrators like cock rings, do the good job of preventing an early ejaculation.

Sex Toys and Disability

Many may have opposed sex toys when they were first introduced into the market.  They now realize that the tools are important in helping the disabled participate and enjoy sexual pleasure.

There is no doubt that some disabilities prevent people from having sex the natural way. Such people also need to experience sexual pleasure.

Luckily, there are female vibrators that can act as perfect substitutes to a sexual partner.  Another important benefit of Stronic Zwei Blue is that they do a better job in pleasuring a partner.  Sometimes the act of pleasuring the other partner during or before sex may require a lot of effort and may even cause cramps. But do the arousing job almost effortlessly.

For a long time, sex toys were seen as a taboo

Bu in the current times society seems to understand that these aids come handy with quite a number of benefits.  ‘

• Including helping men and women reach orgasm at the same time. 
• Helping the disabled enjoy sexual pleasure. 
• Reducing the effort required to arouse a partner among many others.

Feeling of it pulsating inside you is totally out of this world. You will not want it to stop. But rest assured you can always have this toy ready for use no matter where you are because it has a magnetic charger, handy for those impulsive trips.

After using this pulsator you will experience a whole new kind of stimulation/sensation. Its deep thrusting motion inside me gives the real thing a run for the money. 

But hey there is no substitute for the real thing…or is there – maybe just in this case.