Differences between dildo, consol and vibrator

vibrators

Today, sexual relations are used as an escape route from routine. A few moments of relaxation, of forgetting all problems. And they are becoming more and more easily available on demand.

 

Between applications to find the ideal partner and online portals where you can find sexy escorts in Canberra the options are unlimited. 

 

But it doesn’t end there. There are times when you don’t need another person to have an orgasm, which is more popularly known as masturbation.These practices have a series of very broad and desirable benefits for the body. The greater the stress and responsibilities, the more you desire and crave them.

 

It is inevitable, despite all the prejudices, fears, embarrassments and taboos that surround this world. Even many people find it difficult to talk about it out loud, because there are still many questions and doubts about everything surrounding sex.

 

Many are the doubts surrounding the world of erotic toys, objects of different shapes, sizes and colors designed with the sole purpose of providing pleasure. Helping everyone to intensify their pleasure both alone and in company, a similar reason as to why female escorts in Hamilton are so sought.

 

One of the most popular questions is undoubtedly the difference between dildos and vibrators. These two really are very similar but at the same time have some characteristics that make them different.

 

Dildo

These are a type of sex toy that usually have an elongated, penis-like shape. They are usually like this because they historically produce eroticism. Although they are more and more different to increase their practicality and usefulness given the use you want to give it.

 

The evolution of these objects is very significant. In fact, in 2005, what appeared to be the remains of the first dildos in history were found. They were dated to over twenty-eight thousand years ago, even though the word “dildo” was first used in the sixteenth century in Greece for the first time.  

 

Its main function is the penetration and stimulation of the most sensitive areas of the body, both through the vagina and the anus. Therefore its shape and material must be suitable. There are even real moulds of well-known porn actors in case someone wants to recreate some X scene. 

 

Dildos are also related to other fantasies such as pegging. Because with the help of a harness and this sex toy, the change of roles is carried out where the active becomes passive. 

 

Vibrator

The main difference with the dildo is the internal motors that drive the vibrators and make the movement happen. As their name suggests, thanks to their vibrations in the right areas they can produce a lot of pleasure. So their main function is no longer penetration but stimulation. So its forms are very different and not so recurrently phallic.

 

As the Hysteria film shows, at the end of the nineteenth century, vibrators were also used to “cure” what was then believed to be a female disease with the same name as the film. 

 

Little by little minds have been freed and opened up so that sexual practices are normalized. This makes the consumption of erotic toys increase and therefore develop. This is why they can now be found in many different shapes, sizes and colours. Even in a very innocent way, like a simple rubber duck.

 

Which one is better?

This is a somewhat complicated question. Since it depends, in many occasions, on personal tastes and particular fantasies. Since each of them stimulates areas and in different ways. So when it comes to choosing, you have to ask yourself the right questions about: material, shape, vibration, size and colour.

 

But if you have any more specific doubts, you can turn to a professional. Among them, sexologists, sex shop owners… Because in the end what is really important is the self-knowledge and to enhance the pleasure you can feel until you reach the climax.  

Fun Factory Fun Cup Menstrual Cup

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The Fun Factory Fun Cup – switching to a menstrual cup could absolutely change your life and save you money! So, I’m sure everyone has heard all about menstrual cups and the stigma around them. I’ve had a lot of people come into the store and ask me “wouldn’t that hurt?” or “isn’t it gross?”, my immediate answer to both of these questions is absolutely not! Wearing a menstrual cup can be slightly awkward to wear at the very start but this is the case with tampons as well. Everyone has been in that situation of starting to wear tampons and not exactly knowing how to feel about it but eventually you get use to it and it becomes a normal and convenient thing because of course you can do pretty much anything with a tampon i.e. sports, swimming, exercising etc.

What is a menstrual cup?

For those who don’t know what a menstrual cup or have never heard of them before, let me give you a quick rundown. A menstrual cup is a silicone cone shaped cup that is inserted into the vagina during THAT time of the month. There are usually two or three different sizes for these cups which depend on age and if you have had children. These cups, (once inserted) create a seal in the vaginal canal stopping any blood from getting through. The cup has a tail or grip on the bottom end, this is where you would pinch and pull to remove the cup.

So, what is so good about the Fun Factory Cup you ask? Well let me tell you. The Fun Cup is made of body safe silicone which means the feeling of this silicone is extremely soft therefore it wont stick to the skin or feel rough down there while inserting or removing. The Fun Cup is also a 100% vegan product so we can have peace of mind knowing that no animals were harmed in the making of the cup. The Fun Cup also comes with antimicrobial bag for hygienic storage during the time of not using it. The pack in which the cup comes in actually comes with two cups one 20ml (Cup A) and one 30ml (Cup B), these two cups give the buyer a choice on either size. Usually sizes are determined by age for example if the buyer was 18 – 25 years of age with no children she would in most cases only need cup A as it is smaller, whereas if the buyer was a 25 – 40-year-old mother she would in most cases need cup B as the vaginal canal would be wider but also cup B can hold more which also means if the buyer was 18 – 25 with an extremely heavy flow she would be able to use cup B and it would still be effective. To insert the cup, you simply fold it in half and with two fingers holding the cup folded, push it up as far as possible and let it pop back out to create the seal. Your muscles will naturally move the cup further up so don’t freak out if you can’t feel it, it is physically impossible for you to lose it up there. To remove the cup, with the same two fingers, feel for the base of the cup, pinch in the sides and slowly pull it out, I’d suggest doing this on the toilet or in the shower to prevent mess.

Benefits of switching to the Fun Cup

Switching to a menstrual cup has a lot of benefits with it. To start with, a cup can be worn for up to 12 hours unlike tampons which can only be worn for a maximum for 4 hours or pads which can fill up pretty fast. Wearing the Fun Cup also means there is little to no risk of TTS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) which is a rare but life-threatening bacterial infection which comes from wearing or leaving in a superabsorbent tampon for longer than recommended. As the cup is made of silicone there is no risk of irritation or infection unless of course you’re allergic to silicone or you don’t clean the cup properly after use. Another benefit of wearing a cup is the smell, everyone who has experienced that time of the month and used any kind of feminine hygiene product would be familiar with that horrible metallic smell when changing it over to a new one. With the Fun Cup there’s no smell! That smell usually comes from a chemical reaction that happens between the bodily fluids and the absorbent product whether it is a tampon or a pad, these products also usually contain some kind of bleach to make them white, which again isn’t exactly safe for the body. With the Fun Cup you can still do everything in your daily routine, YES! you can exercise, swim, play sports and absolutely wear whatever your heart desires without worrying about leakage or even water absorbing into the product. Another great thing about the Fun Cup is although your initial purchase may cost you more than a box of pads or tampons, in the long run, you will save a bomb of money by not having to purchase feminine products each month and you’ll never be caught by surprise. That means no more sending your partner down to the shops to get you some! And with the added bonus that a menstrual cup only needs to be replaced every 10 years, that’s 120 months’ worth of money not spent on feminine products.

Cleaning your cup

In order to properly clean your menstrual cup, I’d recommend buying a small pot or metal container that can be put onto the stove. You’re not going to want to use this pot for anything else. Fill the pot up with water and wait for it to boil, which then you can put the rinsed Fun Cup into the boiling water and let it boil for 5 minutes. The boiling water will sterilise the cup and kill any bacteria that may be on it meaning next time you are ready to use the cup it will be clean, sterile and ready to go.

Summary of the Fun Cup

I highly recommend switching to the Fun Cup! Reduced risk of infection, all day wear, little to no smell, still do everything you normally would, no need to buys pads or tampons each month anymore and only needs replacing every 10 years. The pack comes with two cups one 20ml and one 30ml so if you don’t have children but are planning on having kids one day that’s perfect, you’re already set and won’t need to buy another one for a long while. The Fun Cup is an amazing product and I think with an open mind, could change any woman’s life!

 

Kaylah is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Stores.

Fun Factory Sundaze: Your New Favourite!

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Hooooooooo-boy! We are being spoiled! Apparently it’s new toy month; I’m definitely not complaining! With the recent drop of the ARCWAVE Ion, (check that article out on this very website) Fun Factory took a look and said “I can do that too!” and dropped the very intriguing Fun Factory Sundaze! The Sundaze seems like a few of Fun Factory’s most popular toys birthed a beautiful love child made to please, and in this article, I’ll be breaking down everything you need to know about it!

 

For a while, the Stronic line from Fun Factory has been some of the most cutting edge technology in the industry, on par with PleasureAir from Womanizer. For those who’ve had the pleasure of experiencing a Stronic toy know exactly what I’m talking about. For those who have missed out, you’ll probably be asking; What is a Stronic? Well, my sweet summer child, the Stronic line combines the ever interesting power of magnets (magnets????) and does all the dirty work ol’ wristy would normally be burdened with. I went into some detail about these toys in my New Wave of Vibrators article, so for a more in depth understanding of the toy, along with some more phenomenal technology that can get your funky business even funkier, check it out here. The Sundaze seems to combine the powerful and impressive thrusting power of the stronic line with their super powerful vibrating toys you’ve come to love. It doesn’t stop there; it also has a feature it calls “tapping”, and while I have no clue what that would do, Fun Factory touts it stimulates nerve endings other vibrators can’t, which in fairness, sounds awesome.

 

Coming in two fresh colours; pistachio and fuschia, the Sundaze keeps with the eye catchingly beautiful theme of all Fun Factory toys. It does stray, however, from the Stronic lines striking black bases/handles, opting instead for a subtle gold, similar more to the Cayona or Amorino. It’s not a massive toy, again probably drawing closer in form to the aforementioned gold based counterparts to the Sundaze, but will still certainly pack a punch. Similarly, again to all the Fun Factory toys, that beautiful, silky, matte silicone we’ve all come to love is present. Soft to the touch, medical grade, and body safe silicone, means the Sundaze is super easy to clean & take care of, but comfortable to use whenever the time is right. To wrap up our features, the Sundaze is also completely waterproof, so a hot soak in the tub just got a bit hotter. The Sundaze also advertises near silence (from the toy, not the user), which is again in line with all Fun Factory products we’ve seen before. 

 

Anyone who has shopped for Fun Factory products will know that the Stronic line press a pretty penny at the counter. For magical seemingly-gravity-defying technology, it’s understandable. Considering the Sundaze is between a pulsator and a vibrator, it only makes sense that pricing wise, it sits between the vibrators and pulsators. Cheaper than all pulsators, more expensive than all vibrators. Perfectly balanced, as all things should be. While we don’t have an RRP just yet, the price standing I mentioned before should be a clear enough gauge to set some money aside for your next personal investment.

 

The Sundaze will grace our shop floor with it’s presence soon enough. We’ll be some of the first in Australia to get our hands on it – so for everyone keen, a short trip to your nearest Oh!Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre will allow you to check this fun new bedtime best friend off your list. I have a good feeling the Sundaze is going to be a fan favourite, so get ahead of the curve and pick one up ASAP!

Sex Toys Are Fun!

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Sex toys are known as all those objects that are used to increase sexual stimulation, and although they are often used to please ourselves, sex toys are much more fun if used with a partner.

With each passing day, more couples and women are encouraged to try fun sex toys and thus get out of the routine and give more intensity to their sexual relations.

It is also worth mentioning that some models of sex toys not only focus on increasing sexual stimulation but are also used to strengthen the pelvic floor to prevent urinary incontinence and also improve women’s sexuality.

Benefits:

-They help you get to know you better:

Sex toys are mainly characterized by allowing you to meet you more easily and discover what you like. This will make your sex much more pleasant and fun.

-You will have more and better orgasms:

By using sex toys you will notice that your orgasms will be more durable and more intense, and can help you reach orgasm more quickly. The more orgasms you have, the easier it will be to experience them again.

-Improve sex with your partner:

Sex toys are the perfect complement to the sexual act because with their different functions they can be used to increase the stimulation and pleasure of the partners.

-Improve health:

Sex toys, by promoting orgasms, can release the stress and tension accumulated during the day, relieve headaches, backaches, menstrual cramps, and also allow you to sleep better and faster. All this is because orgasms help you feel better.

-It makes our desire to have sex increase:

Sex toys help us in a very meaningful way to keep our sex life more active and also our sexual desire.

-Anal sex:

Sex toys are perfect for people who want to start this activity because they can be a great help to get used to the area and prepare it for penetration.

There are also lubricants and gels ideal for use in this activity, which is highly recommended for beginners.

-They make you independent:

It can make you enjoy as much or more than with a man, for example, rabbit toys designed to simultaneously stimulate the internal vagina and the clitoris.

Most common sex toys:

There is a wide variety of fun sex toys, but between the most common we can mention:

-Penis rings:

These sex toys are a good option not only for men but also for women, as they stimulate the clitoris and prolong the erection of the man by trapping blood inside the penis.

They are mainly used by men who have erection problems.

-Dildo:

This is a device that is used to stimulate the anus and the vagina.

This sex toy can be used with movements to cause more internal stimulation or statically while stimulating other areas of the body at the same time.

-Vibrators:

This sex toy is an electronic device very similar to a dildo or dildo with the difference that it vibrates, it is mainly used by women to stimulate the clitoris offering a completely different pleasure.

Today there is a wide range of vibrators with different shapes and sizes that can be used internally or externally.

-Chinese balls:

These are large hollow metal balls that include smaller balls inside. They are inserted into the vagina, where they can remain for a long time. The movement of the woman causes these balls to swing, causing an orgasm in the woman who uses it.

This sex toy is also used by women suffering from vaginal problems because it helps exercise pelvic muscles and prevents urinary incontinence.

Many of these sex toys change in consistency and form, but in general, they remain the same.

Should I use sex toys?

Whether you are single or as a couple, sex toys are a great support to make your sexual relations a much more rewarding and enjoyable experience. They can also help us discover how to stimulate and learn about our sexuality. Besides sex toys are fun.

Why are sex toys fun?

Sex toys as mentioned above are the perfect complement to your sexual relations since in addition to adding more pleasure and desire in your sexual encounters, they will also give you more fun and emotion, due to their varied functions that give an extra touch in the moment of sexual act or masturbation. Sex toys offer pleasure in different ways that are just waiting for you to meet them.

Enjoy and forget about taboos.

The Fun Cup

Menstrual Cup

Without delving into the embedded patriarcal society in which we all live, it most definitely has led to the stigma involved with all things menstruation. Most men don’t even understand the basic principle of a period: being the ejected blood, mucus and tissue by the uterus, materials it was preparing ready to fertilize an egg, but when the ovum isn’t fertilised, this is all expelled through the cervix.

So it’s really no surprise that not much research has historically been done into how to manage this monthly flow. It wasn’t really until toxic shock syndrome hit the headlines in the 80s that women started to look for an alternative to those disposable products like tampons.

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What is a menstrual cup?

Which is where the menstral cup, or diva cup, comes into play. Unlike a tampon or a pad which are designed to soak up period blood, a menstrual cup ‘catches’ it. And while there is now a wide range of these cups on the market, the Fun Cup just might be the best option out there.

Designed and manufactured by those brilliant Germans at Fun Factory, home of some of your favourite sex toys, the Fun Cup is their innovative entry into this growing market. The Fun Cup is a 100% medical grade silicone and is a far better design than all those others, that haven’t changed their design since the 90s!

Why use a menstrual cup?

While tampons can dry you out and cause micro-tears, leaving you more susceptible to infection, the Fun Cup is gentle on your skin and great for your well-being. A menstrual cup can hold 4-6 times the amount of a tampon, and once cleaned, is reusable for years to come. As such, the Fun Cup is a lot more eco-friendly than disposable products, and better for the environment is better for everyone. Given the expense of disposable products, the Fun Cup will pay for itself within about six months, and saving money is always a good thing (more money to spend on toys!).

Choosing the right menstrual cup

There are a few important things to keep in mind about finding the right menstrual cup (since it can be worn for around ten hours, it wants to be comfortable). Menstrual cups should sit snugly within the vaginal canal, just below the cervix. However if it is touching the cervix, it can be dislodged, which is going to be both uncomfortable and messy, and means your menstrual cup doesn’t fit properly.

This is why, with the Fun Cup Explore Kit, there is one of each of their two sizes included, Size A and Size B. Size A is 5.3cm long with a 4cm diameter and holds 20 ml and is great for those with a lighter flow or those with a shallower vaginal canal. The larger Size B, 5.8cm long, 4.3cm diameter and holding 30 ml, is better suited to those with a longer vaginial canal or during a heavy flow.

The Fun Cup has also been designed to better fit your anatomy, as well as provide greater comfort and leakage protection. Most menstrual cups also have that pokey tail hanging beneath the bell shape, while the Fun Cup has a tapered tip with small grooves to better get a grip on it for removal.

How to use a menstrual cup

This is where most people hesitate about the idea of using a menstrual cup. There’s a bit of a learning curve to inserting a menstrual cup, but you’ll have it mastered in no time.

Inserting your Fun Cup

Start by sitting on the toilet with your legs apart, or standing with one leg propped up. Fold your cup, either with a C-fold or a punch-fold, and insert into your vagina, scooping it back towards your spine. If you’re having a lighter period, or to make things easier, apply a little water based lubricant to the cup. Once inserted, release the cup, and it will unfold inside you. By bearing down with your muscles and twisting the cup back and forth, you’ll create a seal. Give a gentle tug to ensure it is secure.

Removing your Fun Cup

You can either reach in and press the tip of your cup with your finger, or alternatively bare down with your muscles and pinch the tip. Gently pull the cup out and tip its contents down the toilet, or down the drain if you’re in the shower.

This whole tipping out the contents is where some women feel they want to turn their noses up at diva cups, but at the same time, many women enjoy the fact that they can keep a better eye on how things are going.

Cleaning your Fun Cup

With a mild unscented soap, rinse and wash out your cup before reinserting it, or storing it in the included antimicrobial Tyvek bag. If you’re on the go and emptying your cup in a cubicle, just wipe it out with some toilet paper before reinserting it.

If you’d like to keep your cup extra clean between periods, boil it for three minutes, allow it to dry before returning it to your Tyvek bag. The fun cup is available at the adultlifestyle sex toy stores Sydney.

Have an Event Like No Other with Sky Strippers

Male Stripping

Planning an event to remember for your girl squad? Want to see a stripper show and have a good time? Are you looking for topless waiters to cater to your party? Sky Strippers got everything covered under one roof. This company, based in Melbourne, has the best male entertainers in all of the city. It provides a wide range of services from male stripping, topless waitering, posing for paintings and photoshoots, and a whole lot more.

If you are clueless about what we are talking about, let this article explain to you how Sky Strippers can provide you and your girls a one of a kind entertainment.

The Home of Hottest Strippers in the City

If you enjoy Magic Mike and Top Gun, you can have them both when you watch one of the live shows brought you by Sky Strippers. They have live shows that feature fully choreographed performances and interactive experience featuring male entertainers who came directly from California. These shows are offered at their Super-Lux Male Strip Club, or you can book them for home visits.

For those who want to make their event extra special, they can bring the heat to your parties and events. They usually cater to hen’s parties, girl’s nights, birthdays, surprise parties, or any occasions that need entertainment. These hot bodies can offer one-of-a-kind entertainment with interactive routines like a lap dance, chair flips, and body roll. 

Enjoy the Food and Drinks with Topless Waiters

Some like it hot, but Sky Strippers can increase the temperature with their topless waiters. Who can say no to a combination of food and sexiness? For a night to remember, you and your girls can enjoy the party with delicious food and overflowing drinks served by fine gentlemen who are perfectly underdressed. These topless waiters with fabulous physique and charming personalities can entertain your guests with their witty banter and flirtatious conversations while keeping their thirsts at bay.

An adrenaline-pumping show and topless waiters, a heady combination that is guaranteed to make your hen parties, birthday parties, or girl’s night out fun and exciting. A male entertainment that you cannot find anywhere else in Melbourne.

Let Sky Strippers Help Plan Your Party

Are you ready to give your best friend the best hen party? Let Sky Strippers help you plan it. They have sensationally seductive male entertainment to make your guest shrill with delight and get the party started. The party planners  can help you plan the hen’s night games, the food, and alcohol, and even come up with a show for you. And for that perfect wedding makeover book an appointment with Nicole Hudson at her hair and beauty salon.

They are the experts in events planning as they have serviced hundreds of these parties. As a company well-known in the male entertainment industry, the company is a professional through and through. This comes as no surprise since they have been voted as the leading male entertainment agency in Australia many times for their professional approach, dynamic planning, and dependable execution.

How Can Male Vibrators Get You Pleasure?

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Exploring your own body and getting your body with the pleasures it seeks for is one of the essential parts of daily life. The masturbatory experiences must be exciting, and the male sex toys can offer the best experience how far the masturbation is concerned. A fair part of caution also has to be taken so that you can take the pleasure of masturbation to the whole new level.

Here is a guide for the readers wherein they can gather much information about sex toys and how one can get pleasure from them.

  1. Sex Toys Can Help You Avail Satisfaction Without Partners:

Sexual desire is one of the mandatory parts of life, without which one cannot do. It is just like every other need or urges that’s there in daily life. Even if one has partners, still getting true pleasure from a partner is also not a matter of ease. Some people are unable to drive their sexual desire from their partner.

In that case, there can be no other better option left than going for sex toys. It not only lessens the dependence of a person on his sex partner. It is one of the significant benefits of using sex toys like those of cock ring vibrator. Thus choose the best vibrating penis ring so that you can avail pleasure to the fullest. It can not only cover up the void in your life but can even help you be sexually independent.

  • They Can Help You Avail The Right Kind Of Pleasure:

The massage of the G-spot always triggers orgasm in men. You can do it with the aid of fingers. If you are looking for the right kind of pleasure, then you can even choose a sex toy for that. The male’s G-spot is from where the orgasm is triggered. They are designed in a way so that they can give various sensations to the male body. Different sex enchantment products can be sued by males to derive pleasures out of them.

Amongst the sex toys, the best ones are the penis tube which has vibrating sleeved with them. You must consider the quality and longevity of products also while buying sex toys like cock vibrator. Thus, if pleasure is all that you seek, then there can nowhere be a better option than sex toys. You will not require a partner but can rightly get your pleasure.

The male masturbators and vibrators are the best solution for men for pleasure extraction. The vibration helps in rushing in the blood to the vessels of the penis. And, it gives sensations and erects the penis. The additional benefits of using sex toys can be the increase in the length and the girth of the penis.

  • Types Of Sex Toys:
  • The orgasmic sensation is something for which every male adult seeks. Arousal of men can also be possible with the use of some prostate simulators which are specifically for the extraction of pleasure for men. Apart from that, some other types of sex toys can be the penis tubes, vibrators. There are even some male sex pumps which enhance the length, hardness as well as girth of the penis.  Males can have a more fabulous sensory experience with the use of the egg vibrators.
  • Since decades, the mainstay sexual tool that has been used is the vibrators which are phallus-shaped. It is used by most of the couples and is the right tool for the males with the help o which they can avail pleasure. Depending on partners to enjoy the manhood can even dishearten you but sex toys can assure you with the best pleasure.
  • Cock ring vibrators are even quite popular amongst the men. They help in the stiff and firm erection. But one must take care when it comes to the period used. Using it for a longer period can even lead to some disorder like penile strangulation. It can be treated with the assistance of a doctor. Thus, male sex toys must be carefully used so that the associated risks can be avoided.

Thus, these were some of the ways how sex toys have a significant role in getting males their part of pleasures. The vibrating cock ring is one of the best sex toys which can bring up some unfelt experiences. Masturbation does not always get pleasure, but using the right toy for pleasure can make you feel good.

So, you can go for the right cock ring vibrator to experience the ultimate joy. Cock vibrator can ultimately help you in making your sexual life awesome. You can not only use them for masturbation, but they can even be used on the partners so that they can ultimately enjoy the foreplay. Every man must know and explore his needs, and the vibrating penis ring is the right tool to be used.

 

Here’s Why Some Lesbians Deeply Enjoy Strap-on Sex

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While leaving the gym, I ran into an old friend from high school. Though I hate running into people I haven’t seen in ages, this time small talk was unavoidable. We asked each other the basic questions of life, but I have to admit I already Facebook crept her a couple of months ago. She’s one of those people that make you check-in with them, you know, see where they are in life. I knew she was a lesbian, dating this woman who enjoys riding horses and making campfires. I already knew everything there was to know, expect the details. After a couple of minutes, she offered to grab a coffee, and I said yes. I knew this was my chance to clear up some of the myths that were floating around in my head about strapon dating and maybe she had the answers.

The details were what I was curious about. I wasn’t a lesbian, and though I understood and respected the basics of it, I wanted to know more. We sat down, I ordered a cold coffee; she had a latte. We talked about life, and I brought up her relationship. “Listen,” I said, “I want to ask you a question that’s really been on my mind.” She smiled openly and nodded, “sure, what is it?” I looked at her for a moment with hesitation, can I ask her this? Can you ask people you haven’t seen in ten years a question like this?

“I want to know more about strap-on sex,” I replied. “That is if you know anything about it. I have a lot of questions about it, and people ask me about it like I’m some wise wizard. But, I haven’t tried it before, so I don’t really know.” She leaned back and laughed, “is this why you agreed to go to coffee with me?” I laughed, “well, partially yes. But I’m also curious about your opinion on these things.” She leaned forward, “well, I do have strap-on sex with my partner if that’s what you’re asking.” I nodded, “but why?” Her eyebrows furrowed, “what do you mean why?” I paused for a moment, rephrasing my thoughts, “I guess my question is why have strap-on sex?” Over the next thirty minutes, I was given all the reasons why.

A dildo isn’t a penis

Here’s what we get wrong with lesbian strap-on sex. Most of us assume that lesbians opt for strap-on sex because they miss having sex with men. But that’s wrong. Just because a woman enjoys using a dildo doesn’t mean she wants to have sex with men. A dildo is a phallic object that both men and women use for pleasure. It’s not a penis.

Strap-on sex spices things up

Like everything in life, a routine can become boring. Whether it’s lesbian, gay, or straight sex, doing the same sex positions can become dull. But strap-on sex spices things up and allows lesbian couples to try new positions, broadening their sexual repertoire. Strap-on sex isn’t necessarily used every time a couple has sex. Instead, it can be used to switch up the routine and put a little va-va-voom back in the bedroom.

It changes power dynamics

Most people assume that in lesbian relationships, there is a butch/femme dynamic where the masculine individual is the top and the feminine individual is the bottom. However, that’s not the case. Firstly, women, regardless of their features, can like a variety of other types of women. A butch can date someone femme, androgynous or tomboy and vice versa. During sex, role reversal happens often and allows both women to try out different power dynamics. Women can experience both the desire to penetrate and be penetrated; they’re more fluid when it comes to power dynamics.

Because there’s more to sex than scissoring

The porn industry didn’t interpret lesbian sex very well. If you look up lesbian porn, most of them scissor. Though scissoring is an actual lesbian sex position, it’s not the only one they engage in. Lesbian sex involves a variety of positions and requires a decent level of flexibility. But, again, it’s not the only position. Oral sex, fingering, and strap-on sex is some examples of sexual acts included in lesbian sex.

Strap-on sex is penetrative sex

Sex between women via strap-on isn’t the same as a woman having sex with a man. The major difference is because one of them involves a man whereas the other involves a dildo. Strap-on sex is penetrative sex which has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Women, regardless of their sexuality, can enjoy penetrative sex and desire it with their female partner. This is where the strap-on plays an important role. It provides a lesbian couple the ability to have penetrative sex without involving a man. In other words, sometimes you just want to be penetrated.

So if you were wondering why some lesbians enjoy strap-on sex, these are some of the reasons why. The beauty of sex is everyone can enjoy different acts for reasons other than their sexuality, and strap-ons are simply a tool for exploration.

 

Find all your strap on sex needs at adultsmart the best adult shop online.

Fun Factory Manta Review!

Fun Factory’s Manta caught my eye first by its weird shape and also by its name. Very odd for a Sex Toy to be named after an animal… Cough Rabbit… However, looking more into this toy I am beyond fascinated by how much fun you can actually have with it. 

Labeled as a vibrating stroker by Fun Factory and one of the 2-3 products designed for men by the Company (the other popular toy being the Coba Libre II), The Manta is very distinct with it’s inward shaped designed which was created to encompass the penis shaft while you move it up and down. Although the ripples do look pretty, they are there for a reason! The ridges in the vibrator are designed to hold the lubricant you apply (Definitely use Pjur Aqua) for a longer and smoother glide. Not only is the toy made out of medical grade silicone but it also sports a rechargeable battery which Fun Factory is best known for and a travel lock so you can take your Manta ANYWHERE!

Quick Fact: When Manta’s mate, it is normally one female chased by 20-25 male Manta’s. Does this sound familiar? 
As a start to writing more and more reviews, you’ll come to notice a common pattern. I love toys that don’t just have one use, but can be VERSATILE! There is so many different way’s you can put the Manta to some fun use with your partner or even yourself! 

  1. It can be used on the shaft of the penis whilst giving oral and even on the testicles 
  2. It can be used as a solo toy while you use it to masturbate 
  3. Don’t NEGLECT the head, use the Manta on the head of the penis for the ultimate stimulation 
  4. The tips on the end of the Manta can be used to stimulate nipples and ear lobes 
  5. Because of the silicone at the tip of the Manta being extremely thin, the vibrations are much stronger meaning that you can use it to stimulate the clitoris (Not just a male’s best friend, call it more a fun third wheel). ]

The Manta by Fun Factory is definitely the sex toy you need to add to your fun box at home. Be sure to add it to your cart here and remember Manta’s need water to live so add a Pjur Aqua to the cart too! 

Fun Factory Volta Vibrator

Let’s just start by saying the Germans know exactly what they are doing when it comes to making sex toys! Fun factory is a brand that appeared on the markets not to long ago. They have such an amazing and wide range of different styles that are of such a high quality of toys that are made in Germany. Most of there products are rechargeable and a very high quality of material.

Their silicone toys also have a refreshing scent on them that keeps them smelling great. The volta is the sex toy I am currently using and have just totally fell in love with it. Its one of they vibrators you start to think who needs a man when you have this as your best friend and let me tell you it never lets me down!! Coming in a few different colours which is nice to be able to pick out that which best suits you.

The Volta Sex Toy can be used for both external and internal use depending on preferences. I have found it more enjoyable for an external toy to use on and around the clit area. It could also be used if your in a couple and are wanting to change it up a bit to make your sex life a little more exciting or different. With couple play, your partner can use while having foreplay or even holding on your clit area while having intercourse. Its very easy to hold and sits nicely on your hands.

One of my best features is that it is recharging using a USB charger as i have never been a fan of battery products. It has a great battery life that can last up to 45 minutes on its highest speed, longer on a lower speed. The material is so soft and smooth that its great for not irritating or damaging your skin. The design of the toy is at the end there are two lips that when turned on flap away and vibrate, i have a nickname. Mine is daffy duck as the lips I find best explains what it looks like. For using external, you just sit the two lips onto the clit area to where it best feels most pleasurable.

It has settings to turn the speed higher or lower. It comes with three buttons, an on/off button and two buttons -/+ for the speeds. This product is great for being able to start softer and build up to a stronger speed. It also has a feature that when the battery life is getting low it will show a warning light. Its also waterproof so easy to clean with water and some toy cleaner.

Toy factory even have there own brand of adult toy cleaner and lubes which are also recommended to use. They say using there own brand works better with keeping the product  clean and without any chemicals as they are specifically designed for the materials that they use. Other brands may be damaging to them so they can stay as long as possible. I also like the size of this vibrator as it wasn’t to long or thick and didn’t intimidate me at all. It is more of average size toy that will suit those that are not size queens. As much as fun factory toys seems a little more on the pricey side i strongly recommend them as you get your moneys worth and could not fault it in any way at all. You definitely will not regret this purchase! 

Elisha: The adult lifestyle centers are offering a free giveaway for any person that comes in and mentions this blog. Valid up until May 31, 2019 and there will be a choice of one of three adult products all valued at over $40 each….